{"id":10280,"date":"2017-01-04T22:01:03","date_gmt":"2017-01-05T03:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/?p=10280"},"modified":"2017-05-23T11:40:31","modified_gmt":"2017-05-23T15:40:31","slug":"so-much-forgotten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/?p=10280","title":{"rendered":"So much forgotten"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Box after box. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/?p=10236\">In the warehouse<\/a> again today. I must have opened three dozen boxes, trying to weed out the stuff we don&#8217;t need and take it to Goodwill. \u00a0I used the box cutter and tape gun so much that my wrist hurt.<\/p>\n<p>There was a prize, though: We got a fancy new Krups espresso machine!<\/p>\n<p>OK, it wasn&#8217;t exactly brand new. It shipped in March of 2010.<\/p>\n<p>Neither Tom nor I is sure where the box containing this espresso machine was between then and now. He raised the question a few times in the past seven years, and I shrugged, having never seen it.<\/p>\n<p>In March of 2010, I was in Afghanistan. Maybe he ordered it as a surprise and put it somewhere and then forgot about it. Maybe we kept it as a backup for the existing espresso maker and then forgot about it. Maybe he was moving it out of the way <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/?p=8113\">for the cleaners<\/a> and then mistook it for some other box of stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow the box ended up on a high shelf of Tom&#8217;s office closet. And when the tree fell and our entire house <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/?p=8918\">got packed out,<\/a> the box was marked &#8220;Closet &#8211; Storage&#8221; and sent to the warehouse.<\/p>\n<p>This wasn&#8217;t the only surprise package. I pulled out a bag from a box marked &#8220;Master bedroom &#8211; closet&#8221; and found six bolts of fabric. I stared at it for a long time. I didn&#8217;t remember buying it.<\/p>\n<p>Because of where it was, on a high shelf next to some clothes that I only wear in Muslim countries, I can deduce its origins. In 2013, I made two trips to Pakistan and was anticipating a third. These trips always routed through Dubai, where I once lived and had a tailor. I must have bought this fabric planning to get more clothes tailored on the next trip.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, Pakistan wouldn&#8217;t give me a visa for the third trip. I never went. The clothes and the fabric for that trip have been on my closet shelf since the summer of 2013.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t even like the fabric anymore.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard, though, to donate that fabric to Goodwill. Not because I&#8217;ll use it &#8211; I won&#8217;t &#8211; but because it represents unfulfilled potential.<\/p>\n<p>Dresses I will never wear. Places I will never go back to.<\/p>\n<p>I compromised. I donated most, but not all, of the fabric.<\/p>\n<p>Because you never know. I might get back to Pakistan, or at least Dubai.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, I can drink some really good espresso.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/img_0230-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-10279\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/img_0230-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2090\" height=\"1552\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/img_0230-1.jpg 2090w, https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/img_0230-1-300x223.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/img_0230-1-768x570.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/img_0230-1-1024x760.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2090px) 100vw, 2090px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nToday&#8217;s penny is a 2013, when I (apparently) bought the fabric.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Box after box. In the warehouse again today. I must have opened three dozen boxes, trying to weed out the stuff we don&#8217;t need and take it to Goodwill. \u00a0I used the box cutter and tape gun so much that my wrist hurt. There was a prize, though: We got a fancy new Krups espresso &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/?p=10280\" class=\"more-link\">read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">So much forgotten<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[318],"tags":[94,1386,164,1137],"class_list":["post-10280","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-refraction","tag-94","tag-belongings","tag-house","tag-materialism"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10280","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10280"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10280\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10292,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10280\/revisions\/10292"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10280"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10280"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lisaschnellinger.com\/pennies\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}