Tom and I are dissimilar in many ways. He’s calm, I’m hyper; he’s a math guy, I’m a word girl.
In the past couple years, though, we’ve had medical procedures in common. Two years ago, we both had surgery for early-onset cataracts. He had his done first, which gave me the courage to get mine done. We took care of each other during the surgery, and gleefully compared notes on our vastly improved vision.
We felt lucky to have had the surgery, because now we both can see details at great distances without contact lenses. Lucky twins.
Last November I had a stroke. Yesterday he had one.
We’re still lucky twins.
We both survived. We may be differently abled after this but neither of us will be permanently disabled. We both got a wake-up call and we are both going to come out stronger for it.
The medical team has determined that Tom’s stroke was caused by high blood pressure over a period of several years. They believe he’s medically stable and that this stroke won’t get worse. Diet, exercise and medication will fix the high blood pressure as well as reducing other risk factors.
His prognosis is good. He needs to do in-patient rehab for at least a couple of weeks until he will be able to function at home; right now he can’t sit up, stand or walk without two assistants. Then there will be more, outpatient rehab. Total rehab is probably four to six weeks. Continuing improvement can happen over months and months.
We aren’t sure yet where he will do this rehab – here in Cleveland, or back home in Atlanta. The attending neurologist thinks Tom could fly on a commercial flight with assistance; the physical therapists disagree. Having just seen a very disabled man take a commercial flight, I’m with the neurologist. The social worker also is checking to see whether insurance would cover air ambulance that distance.
No one will guarantee that he’ll come back 100% – fine motor skills in particular are hard, the doctor said. Not impossible though. The brain is an amazing organ, and neuroscience is advancing by the minute.
And Tom is already applying his Army Ranger “Accomplish the mission!” attitude to get better as fast as humanly possible.
We’re both stubborn and determined. We’ll look back and see this as the year we both became healthier.
Today’s penny is a 2014, the year that the lucky twins had cataract surgery.
8 thoughts on “Lucky twins”
I like this new MO. Best wishes to Tom as he enters rehab. And, to you as his “lucky twin.”
Seemed like the best way to think about it, Bob. Thanks for the good wishes
Lisa, my heart is with you. Thank you for the update. As you already know so well, every day is a step closer to healing for both of you. You are indeed lucky twins. Book title?? 😉
Thanks Erika — and, hmmmmmmmmm, Lucky Twins, I can see that on a thumbnail-sized book cover 🙂
It is good to read that Tom’s prognosis is positive and so is his attitude.
My husband had cataracts removed earlier this year and is enjoying the same benefits that you and Tom are. I have been wearing glasses just about all my life and am pea green with envy! But alas, no cataracts.
Cataract surgery is AWESOME. I can’t believe I was so afraid of it!
You and Tom are blessed and you have been a blessing to so many people all over the world.
Thanks so much Patty!!!
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